The guy hosting wanted $20 a person to cover the cost of the room and asked that everyone either get naked or strip down to just a jockstrap on arrival. I had seen an ad on an online message board (this was the 90s) about a hotel party only a few miles from my house. That is, until I was in my late 20s and went to my first hotel party. I had been to bookstores and theaters and played there but nothing really changed.
I had topped older men and had my ass played with and toyed and even fucked a couple times but hadn't really gotten into that too much. I had gotten my cock sucked by older men who liked twinks and I had sucked cock in turn.